Cats are great at body language, and you’re probably clear on your cat’s desires…most of the time. But what about those times when you’re just not communicating? Here are a few questions we think a lot of cats have about life with humans.
Question 1: Why do you keep petting me after I’ve told
you to stop?
I like being petted, but I have my limits. Or in case you
didn’t understand my body language, a twitching tail and sideways ears means,
“I’m done. Please stop.” I can’t be blamed if there’s a scratch or bite that
follows my warning!
A Good Answer from You
Sorry, kitty. I know now! I’ll keep an eye out for those
signs that you’d like your space.
Question 2: Why can’t I have fish at every meal?
I appreciate the occasional tuna juice you give me, but I
want my own piece. Fish oil is good for me. It makes my coat soft and improves
my brain functions. Plus, I like fish. Like, a lot!
A Good Answer from You
Oh kitty, too much can make you sick! Let’s talk with the veterinarian about treats and snacks that are
good for you and can keep you happy.
Question 3: Why do you get upset about me jumping on the
counter (or table?)
First off, let’s look at facts. I can jump up there, and
I like having the advantage of height. It keeps me out of reach of the dog, plus, you have tasty food
there (like fish.) If you really don’t want me on the counter, then give me
another high place where I can retreat but still be close to you.
OK. We
don’t want your fur in our food. Why don’t we make another place where you
can sit, like this shelf or a new cat tree?
Question 4: Why do you yell at me when I sharpen my
claws on the big fluffy scratching post you call a couch?
I like to stretch my paws wide, and sometimes my claws
catch. Then, I realize it feels so good to stretch. And I can do it while
sitting next to you, so that’s a win. Confession: sometimes, when you’re not
around, I scratch it
to relieve stress. Sorry. Not sorry.
The furniture is expensive. When you scratch it, you ruin
it. Here’s proper a scratching post. I’ll even put some treats on it to
encourage you to use the post instead of the furniture!
Question 5: Why do you insist on combing me?
I don’t like it, and I can groom myself. Do you see my tail twitching?
Do you see how much fur comes off of you when I comb you?
That’s fur that doesn’t coat the furniture, or my clothes, or the floor. I’ll
try to keep brushing sessions a bit shorter, and I’ll reward you with chin
scratches or treats!
Question 6: Why do you take so many pictures of me?
Sleeping, stretching, playing, cleaning my toes...all of
these are all photo
opportunities to you. But I’m just living my life. Why so many
pictures?
Kitty, you’re cute. And we need to have our own cat
photos to post on #catsofinstagram. Do you know you’re up 150 followers? How
about I turn off the camera flash and sounds?
Question 7: Why do I have to split your love and
attention with the dog?
Actually, why do
we have a dog?
We like the dog. You’ll have to learn to get along. But
as a family, we pledge to keep an eye out for signs of stress and make sure
that you have plenty of space. If need be, we’ll talk with the vet about
ways to help you two share the household happily.
You and your cat might have many, many more questions, and
you’re always welcome to ask us! Please feel free to reach out on Answer Your
Cat’s Questions Day -- or any day!
Based on an article that first appeared at GeniusVets
